Tour of the Bennett Place

Last week we drove out to the Bennett Place State Historic Site in Durham, North Carolina and took the tour of where the largest surrender of the American Civil War took place. 

When we first arrived in Durham, NC, we knew this was one of the places we would visit, for sure.  We love any history about the Civil War and so always try to visit anyplace about it.  We are not Civil War history buffs or anything like that, but love to visit the places where any of it took place.

During our visits we hope the kids pick up some knowledge on the evolving of America by experiencing some of the events which helped shape it.  The Civil War is just such an event and anytime we can expose the kids to it, in person or as a living history, we do.

The house that belonged to James and Nancy Bennett just happened to be at the right place at the right time on April 17, 1865.  

Since it was located close to a central point between the Confederate army under General Joseph Eggleston Johnston and the Union army under Major General William Tecumseh Sherman, it was perfect for negotiating the terms of surrender for the Confederate army, which ended the war for the southern armies that were in the Carolinas, Florida, and Georgia.

We were actually told, by our tour guide, that there was a farm which was even closer to center point, but the owners did not want any Yankees on their land, so the next closest one was the Bennett Place.

The original roadbed for the Old Hillsborough Road that connected Raleigh from the east and Hillsborough from the west ran right through the Bennett farm which has been preserved still today. 

Original Hillsborough Road facing west towards Hillsborough.

Wouldn't it be nice if you could stand in the middle of the road, or maybe on its edge would be better, and be transported back in time when General Sherman and General Johnston met here in 1865?

To stand here and see who all has been up and down this old road and what it looked like back in 1865 would be amazing.  For now though, we will just have to use our imagination.

Original Hillsborough Road facing east towards Durham and Raleigh.

Unfortunately with the loss of both James Bennett's sons and son-in-law due to the war, he could not keep up with the daily work on the farm which he completely quit farming in 1875 and then died in 1878.  The original house, which was already in despair, burned down during a fire in 1921.  

The one that is on the property today is actually the Proctor family's house built in the 1840's about four miles away from the Bennett's farm and was moved on site in 1960.  All that remains of the original Bennett house is the stone chimney that the Proctor house is attached to.  The Proctor house was very similar in construction to the Bennett house and so, is a good replacement.

Replica of the Bennett's house.  The original one was destroyed by fire 1921. 

View of the original chimney.

The interior of the Bennett house where the Generals talked.

The replicated table and chairs the Generals discussed the terms of surrender at.

One of the two bedrooms in the house.

Some of the items the family might of had that helped make life a little easier.

The smoke house was another building that was built out of material from the Proctor farm on the original location.  Since there were no refrigerators during this time, meats needed to be smoked so that they could be kept from spoiling and stored for later use.

It was also used to store vegetables and any other food supplies that were needed.  It also served as a outbuilding for storing tools and any other item that needed to be kept out of the elements.

The very important smokehouse.

The fire that would be built to smolder and smoke the meat hanging in the smoke house.

Tools would have also been stored in the smoke house to keep them out of the elements.

Meat would have been hung from the rafters to be smoked to keep it from spoiling while stored for winter.

As with most farms during this time frame, the kitchen was not attached to the living quarters, but was a separate building.  The biggest reason for this was to keep the heat from the kitchen out of the living quarters, but it also prevented the house from catching on fire, since a fire was more likely to start in the kitchen than anywhere else.

The kitchen is also reconstructed out of time related material from the Proctor farm.

Tia looking out one of the windows from the kitchen house.

A weaving loom that would have been used to weave fabric for clothes and other materials.

Everything needed to cook with would have been kept in the kitchen house.

Most of the meals would have been eaten in the kitchen house so naturally the dinnerware was kept there.

What the dinner table may have looked like in the kitchen house.

As with most of the farms of this age it was very common to have a kitchen garden next to the kitchen house so that fresh vegetables and herbs could be grown and used with every meal.

In 1865 you did not run to the local grocery store or corner market for your produce.  You had to grow and harvest it yourself.

The kitchen garden next to the kitchen house.

In 1923 The Unity Monument was placed on the site to show the dedication to peace and the reunification of the Unites States even though it was objected to by The United Daughters of the Confederacy who thought it represented a dedication to defeat.

Unity Monument.

If you would like more history on this historic place, you can click on any of the links I have put on this blog to include the NC Historic Sites - Bennett Place web page for more info.

We are very happy that we finally made it out to the Bennett Place and got to step back in time for a little bit.  It is hard to imagine exactly how life was back in the late 1800's, but easy to see how many more conveniences we have today and take for granted.

We are all so blessed to be Americans living in such a great country that survived a civil war and continues to let us live with the freedoms that we have.  God has been good to us and our nation.

Even though there are some who may try to limit our freedoms, we have the freedom to oppose them without the fear of retaliation and punishment.

God bless America and the men and women who have fought and fight for our freedom everyday!

Ian, Chloe, Courtney, Misty, Avery's right arm, and Tia's right arm and leg at The Unity Memorial.

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Bowling Near Duke

Sometimes, to let off a little steam or just have some fun, we take the kids bowling.  It is something that all of us can participate in and we all love to do it.

Now, we are not professional bowlers, and with me probably being the best bowler, with an average score around 200, we will not be winning any bowling competitions anytime soon.

But it is a lot of fun and does not cost too much.  Misty and I have contemplated about getting our own bowling balls and shoes, but do not know whether it would be worth it since we are hit and miss with going bowling.

Once Misty gets warmed up, she is capable of getting a strike, as demonstrated below.

Looking good for a strike.

Strike! X 

A very proud Misty after her strike.

Here's proof of her strike.

Of course I could not let her show me up, so had to try for a strike too! But just like I tell the kids, you don't always get what you want.

Don mentally preparing to recover from his missed strike.

Looking good!

Well, not a strike, but at least a spare.

We also think that maybe the lanes were not maintained as well as they could be due to being robbed many times of our strikes.

The proof is in the pictures below.  Anyone can tell that Misty just threw a perfect ball and that a strike should be the result.

Looks like a strike to me.

But then, for no apparent reason, she was robbed!

Robbed!

She was so stunned by the vicious crime that was perpetrated against her, that it completely threw her confidence off and shook her for the rest of her frames, as is evident below in the next couple of pictures.

If at first you don't succeed, try, try again.

Misty doing the walk of shame after being so shook up by being robbed earlier.

Now that I had a chance to win the game, I reached down deep, pulled out my best moves, and let the ball fly.  I could just tell that I executed the perfect throw and the ball and I were one.

Yea, I know that the picture may not show it as being perfect, but the end results were.  You know the light was awful dim and I had the flash turned off on my phone when taking these pictures too.

Don and the ball as one.

Perfection!

For the kids we have the bumpers put up so that they do not have a bunch of gutter balls, but Courtney and Tia are pretty good at keeping the ball down the middle without touching the bumpers.

If the kids get a strike or spare after bouncing off of a bumper, then I tell them that in reality, it was a gutter ball.  Some may think I'm just busting their bubble, but they need to learn to bowl the right way and keep the balls out of the gutter.

Ian checking out his results.

Avery really liked his bowling shoes and wanted to keep them. Luckily, we talked him out of it and he did not make too big of a scene when leaving.

Avery excited about something.

Avery picking his ball while Courtney and Chloe pose for the camera.

Avery bouncing it off the bumper.

Chloe even gets into the game with a little help from her brothers and sisters.  Here Courtney is helping her throw her ball.

Courtney helping Chloe bowl.

Chloe happy with her latest throw.

As you can tell, Chloe was having quite the fun time while bowling with her family.

Chloe having fun.

All in all we had a fun time and the kids got to burn off some of their stored up energy, which is always good.

Ethan surveying his latest throw.

Courtney trying to pick up a spare.

Courtney showing how happy she is or that she really, really has to pee.

Tia throwing her best.

We do not go bowling a lot, but plan on picking it back up since we all can play and the kids have so much fun doing it.

The last time we went with our friends from church, the Gloade family and had a really good time.  They have three lovely girls, who our children love to play with and so anytime we get together, it is fun.

Their dad, Christian, said that he had not bowled since he was a teenager, but I had my suspicions when he started bowling strikes early into the game.

I bowled one of my best games to include a turkey (three strikes in a row) and won the first game, but then was beat in the next game by Christian.  I really do believe he had not bowled since he was a teenager, but he could have fooled us!

We are so lucky that we make good friends everywhere we go and have so much fun with them.  Unfortunately, we do not always show you everything we do on our blog for all sorts of reasons, but try to show the things that we think are the most interesting.  One day, when I can get a blog out every week, you will see more of what we do.

Also, the weather here has been rain on top of rain!  As a result, we've had to cancel a lot of our planned outdoor activities.  One reason I'm doing this blog so close to the last one is because our plans were rained out for the day and I ended up with some spare time.

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Homemade Organic Cream of Mushroom Soup

Here is a recipe for homemade organic cream of mushroom soup that is way better than the canned variety you buy in the store.  You can also make it without using organic ingredients, if you so desire.

Ingredients for organic Cream of Mushroom soup.

The chicken broth pictured in the glass bowl is also homemade using organic chickens.  Misty usually makes a batch every week or so when we roast two 3lb chickens for dinner.  She then takes all of  the bones and slow cooks them overnight with some other vegetables and herbs to make the broth.  Usually, it ends up being more like jello, which means it is very good chicken broth.

Maybe I can show that recipe in a future post.

As for the cream of mushroom soup, here are the ingredients which are all organic, but do not have to be:

3 tablespoons all purpose flour
2 tablespoons butter

2 cups chicken broth
1 glove garlic
1 cup heavy cream
8 oz mushrooms
1 small onion chopped
1/4 teaspoon pepper

1/2 teaspoon salt

First thing is to chop up your mushrooms and onions.  We like them chopped small, but you can chop them medium or however you like.

Chopping up the mushrooms and onions.

Next you will want to melt the butter in a pot large enough to hold it all.  We used a 5 quart pot which was more than big enough.

Melting the butter.

Next add in your mushrooms and onions and saute until the onions are soft.

Sauteing mushrooms and onions until the onions are soft.

After about six or seven minutes it should look like the below picture, depending on how high your heat is and how small you chopped the mushrooms and onions.

What your mushrooms and onions should look like after sauteing for six or seven minutes.

Next add in your flour and stir it in throughly.

Adding flour.

You can now add in the chicken broth. 

Adding in chicken broth.

While keeping it on the heat, stir in the chicken broth until it thickens a good bit.

Thickening the soup after the chicken broth is added.

Next comes the heavy cream and the rest of the seasonings.

Adding in the heavy cream.

 

Adding in the last of the heavy cream.

Now stir it all together and let it thicken a little more until it is at the consistency you like.  Serve and enjoy!

Finished Organic Cream of Mushroom Soup.

This is a very easy and quick recipe for this soup.   We will make two or three batches and then freeze it in ZipLock bags to use later on.

No store bought soup can compare and this is so much healthier.  The main reason for this blog is to share with you how easy it is to make your own. 

So next time you crave a nice bowl of Cream of Mushroom soup or have a recipe that calls for it, try this recipe and let us know whether it measures up.

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